tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post631992230075976229..comments2023-06-18T08:28:56.829-07:00Comments on Imperfect Perfection : Letting Go Of Letting GoKatelyn @ Imperfect Perfectionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02660737350990988274noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-31633197734975194522013-08-25T11:32:09.556-07:002013-08-25T11:32:09.556-07:00http://paulams.weebly.com/blog.html All the follow...http://paulams.weebly.com/blog.html All the follow links are on the right side of my blog if it's easier.Paula Stewarthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03857768768567721046noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-70379555755361101412013-08-25T11:31:10.197-07:002013-08-25T11:31:10.197-07:00I joined the Super Sunday Sync. SHADY'S SWEEPS...I joined the Super Sunday Sync. SHADY'S SWEEPSTAKES,GIVEAWAYS, AND FREEBIES followed you <br />http://www.bloglovin.com/paulastewart754<br />GFC PaulaM S https://plus.google.com/105275420745683943232/posts<br />Facebook Paula Stewart https://www.facebook.com/PaulaMS.ssgf<br />http://instagram.com/paula_stewart1<br />Paula Stewart http://pinterest.com/shady129<br /><br />We all need to work on "ME" You're not alone.Paula Stewarthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03857768768567721046noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-37216865884206479942013-08-25T11:26:27.478-07:002013-08-25T11:26:27.478-07:00yes... we are all wonderful!!!!
i really liked t...yes... we are all wonderful!!!! <br />i really liked the reminder from your post !<br />visiting from the blog hop and now following by blog lovin~ Noellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16563447842634387539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-67088987454423384072013-08-25T09:38:38.466-07:002013-08-25T09:38:38.466-07:00What a wonderful reminder that we are ALL fabulous...What a wonderful reminder that we are ALL fabulous, regardless of our weight ~ since when did that have anything to do with it anyhow!!Lady Fabuloushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08099583252181301372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-35264612095154494052013-08-24T20:36:32.266-07:002013-08-24T20:36:32.266-07:00Amazing the things we can do to ourself, isn't...Amazing the things we can do to ourself, isn't it? I think just as we can punish ourselves we can also turn it around for good. The way we think really does affect so many things!!<br /><br />Happy to be visiting today from Super Sunday Sync.mail4roseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17850985344834209198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-5001754402827099152013-08-23T14:25:54.496-07:002013-08-23T14:25:54.496-07:00I can completely relate to this-I have that same v...I can completely relate to this-I have that same voice inside my head. I find myself picturing this future version of myself that has it all together and it not only puts a lot of pressure on yourself but makes the present less enjoyable. Such a great reminder to focus on the positives!Annahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11140002339554131921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-21599715041306122342013-08-23T02:53:29.657-07:002013-08-23T02:53:29.657-07:00Such a great, honest, truthful post. Life is a jou...Such a great, honest, truthful post. Life is a journey and you have to stop and enjoy te middle not just the end. I can so relate though. My closet have 3 different jean sizes based on old jean, fits me now jeans, and goal weight jeans. Kerry @ Till Then Smile Often https://www.blogger.com/profile/06310280328915640609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-71356986281129313662013-08-22T19:46:01.115-07:002013-08-22T19:46:01.115-07:00This is a beautiful post! On days where I am not f...This is a beautiful post! On days where I am not feeling great or I start my day off on the wrong note (snoozing through a workout...eating cake for breakfast...) I always just say "forget it" and let go of any of the goals I have set for myself. It's so important to not get too wrapped up on one small thing and remember that life is bigger than that one piece of cake or those size 2 jeans that you wish you could fit into. I hear ya girl and I hope more do too :)Davida @TheHealthyMavenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03945823310504977537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-78790882902256079122013-08-22T19:44:57.240-07:002013-08-22T19:44:57.240-07:00More women should have your point of view. Our cul...More women should have your point of view. Our culture overvalues how a person looks on the outside. Perhaps all of us need to focus more on what's in the inside. Life goes by so quickly, don't waste time on what ifs, when I loose weight etc. Just be healthy whatever your weight. Found you thru The Meet and Greet Blog Hop. Now following via GFC, hope u can stop by my blog as well.<br /><br />Anne Marie<br />http://moanasuniquedesigns.blogspot.com/Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10993945539022049026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-78767287004930941292013-08-22T16:11:34.771-07:002013-08-22T16:11:34.771-07:00Such an honest, truthful post Katelyn. I do the ex...Such an honest, truthful post Katelyn. I do the exact same thing to myself. Instead of living in the here and now, we plan for the hypothetical and deny ourselves rewards and pleasure. I'm starting to learn myself that happiness come from acceptance, and not having control over the things we cannot change immediately (i.e. our weight). But we can change how we respond and our self-talk. Very insightful post!Kayla Laylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15174141878114545499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-79010903664492903472013-08-22T12:39:00.128-07:002013-08-22T12:39:00.128-07:00YES YES YES! You are 100% right. I am ALWAYS maki...YES YES YES! You are 100% right. I am ALWAYS making comments about "waiting until I lose the weight".. and I DON'T take care of myself now. Why have I never thought of this?! The reason why I'm not losing the weight (probably) is because I'm not taking care of myself now.. I'm not loving myself now.. I'm not happy with myself now. I need to change my entire attitude. I still deserve love and respect from MYSELF while I'm in this holding pattern. Such a great new outlook! THANK YOU! Mirandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04860427091726331193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-45254451253641254222013-08-22T08:46:58.789-07:002013-08-22T08:46:58.789-07:00Your words ring so very true! The absolute, most ...Your words ring so very true! The absolute, most important thing you can do is love yourself! :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03592779176783104399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-13388536450164341332013-08-22T08:04:07.394-07:002013-08-22T08:04:07.394-07:00I do tend to live in my workout wear, just a sweat...I do tend to live in my workout wear, just a sweaty mess all day long (I do multiple workouts during the day, a benefit of being a SAHM with a home gym). Often I'm too lazy to change when I do go out too, I'm so busy trying to lose weight to look good in the future that I don't really bother with what I look like on the day to day. I am trying to make more of an effort to change and attempt to look nice each day, especially if I'm leaving the house :)JenBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16376616104651932239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-40687285964961798522013-08-22T07:30:01.649-07:002013-08-22T07:30:01.649-07:00i'm also "waiting to lose weight" to...i'm also "waiting to lose weight" to buy new clothes. i've been doing that for like 2 years now. i need to let go of that silly nonsense!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-12571226926494007932013-08-22T07:26:43.630-07:002013-08-22T07:26:43.630-07:00I just found your blog through theeberspachers.blo...I just found your blog through theeberspachers.blogspot.com. Let me tell you - this post was EXACTLY what I needed today! Oh my goodness, you could have taken those words right out of my mouth. I am guilty of continually doing the same thing... "When I weigh X then, I will..." it is such a negative image to portray. Love your blog, you definitely have a new follower! <br /><br />Alisha<br /><br />http://alishasanecdotes.blogspot.com/Alishahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05204696483247114830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-58645525440845531132013-08-22T06:46:46.048-07:002013-08-22T06:46:46.048-07:00This was such an encouraging post for me to read. ...This was such an encouraging post for me to read. Inreally needed it so thank you! Our image and ideal body/weight can be so daunting, right? I have found that whenever i reach or meet a new goal infer myself something new that fits a little better. Lets me shoe off what I have been working at :)Lauren Eberspacherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09893157645853086728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-32328162113450326072013-08-22T06:44:19.756-07:002013-08-22T06:44:19.756-07:00I feel this exact same way! I see so many cute fa...I feel this exact same way! I see so many cute fashionable things that I won't allow myself to buy because I need to lose more weight. I stay in the same boring black pants, too. I totally agree with Ashton above regarding your line about weight loss should not be your happiness. As someone that has been overweight for a while now, the idea of being thin and in a certain jean size directly correlates to me being happy. In reality, my life is pretty wonderful even though I have weight to lose. I love reading other people's outlooks on this topic because it puts in back in check for me. Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00651736660253819382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-330432825883058112013-08-22T06:40:15.043-07:002013-08-22T06:40:15.043-07:00New to your blog (via Holly Stanfield's blog),...New to your blog (via Holly Stanfield's blog), but this line that you wrote speaks volumes: "I think weight loss should enhance happiness, not be your happiness." WOW! Love it. Keep on keeping on.tweetsweethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11469703948859691901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-74913594138168927502013-08-22T06:01:49.388-07:002013-08-22T06:01:49.388-07:00Love it! I think the same way about myself all the...Love it! I think the same way about myself all the time... and I love your line "I think weight loss should enhance your happiness, not be your happiness", it is SO true!! Even though I'm overweight, I do still try to wear clothes that are cute, but some things I feel are "off limits" to me..like sleeveless shirts or anything kind of tight. It's sad but true. Ashton @ A Fluffy Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04618773445834863054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-55973307550833306242013-08-22T05:48:24.772-07:002013-08-22T05:48:24.772-07:00I love the part about your how your goal weight mi...I love the part about your how your goal weight might not be realistic for you. I see girls my age all the time who weigh 20 pounds less than me and look great but if I weighed that I would look way to thin. Sometimes it's hard to remember everyone is different. 140 on me is different than140 on you, for example. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05276233049354646285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-56907262181868729242013-08-22T05:39:00.901-07:002013-08-22T05:39:00.901-07:00YES i totally agree!
even when i was overweight, ...YES i totally agree!<br /><br />even when i was overweight, i still loved myself..i didn't like the way i looked but me? it was all over myself every day :)<br /><br />remember that YOU have the power to make a change. for many, their time to change isn't here yet and it's only when you hit that point that it will stick. trust me; it took me 7yrs to fall back in love with fitness and health again..SEVEN YEARS! and it wasn't for my lack of trying; i did try (numerous times) but failed because it wasn't my time and my rock bottom had not hit me yet. <br /><br />so your happiness is all within your power. if you're unhappy with something, change it. weight loss is not easy and i think that people forget to maintain perspective when losing weight and you hit it right on the head: weight loss should enhance happiness, not be your happiness.<br /><br />i love this post! wise words, Katelyn!<br /><br />-kathy<br /><a href="http://www.lifeinprogress.ca" rel="nofollow">Vodka and Soda</a> Kathy@MoreCoffeeLessTalkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11044005966979731361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5633786152685997232.post-24231867168498986092013-08-22T05:05:28.652-07:002013-08-22T05:05:28.652-07:00Great post! Since I got married I've put on mo...Great post! Since I got married I've put on more weight than I would like, and as a result I'm very much like you in that I see clothes and think "I would buy that if I was a bit slimmer". I've tried to change my way of thinking in the last few months though, and concentrate more on being healthy and toned rather than the number on the scales. You are absolutely right that weight loss shouldn't be the focus towards reaching happiness, I must do more to realise this sometimes!Jenni@FlyingOnARainbowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09242289136872997324noreply@blogger.com